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China women’s team won the Chengdu World Table Tennis Championships with a total victory in eight games.

  On October 8th, China team members took a group photo at the award ceremony. Xinhua News Agency reporter Jiang Hongjing photo

  Xinhua News Agency, Chengdu, October 8 (Reporter Chen Di) On the evening of the 8 th, the women’s team final of the 56th World Table Tennis Team Championship in 2022 was staged. Three members of the China team, Chen Meng, Manyu Wang and Sun Yingsha, played well and beat the Japanese team 3-0, helping the China team win the championship with an impressive record of winning all eight games and achieving five consecutive championships in the World Table Tennis Championships.

  On October 8th, the China women’s team took a group photo after winning the championship. Xinhua News Agency reporter Jiang Hongjing photo

  The final started on time at 7: 30 that night, and Chen Meng was the first to go into battle. In the face of Japanese player Miyuki Muhara, Chen Meng’s strength was obviously superior. At 11:6, 11:8 and 11:8, Chen Meng scored a "good start" in three straight sets for China.

  On October 8th, the China women’s team took a group photo after winning the championship. Xinhua News Agency reporter Yan Bingjie photo

  Hayata Hina, another famous Japanese team, was absent, so China’s biggest opponent in this campaign was Ito Meicheng, and Manyu Wang took on the heavy responsibility of stopping Ito Meicheng that night. At the beginning of the game, Miki Ito made a lot of trouble for Manyu Wang by using changeable serve, fierce forehand attack and backhand volley, but Manyu Wang, who was full of tenacity, still relied on his excellent ability to protect the table to entangle with his opponent. The first two games were very tight and the game was 1:1.

  On October 8th, China team coach Li Sun (third from left) and players Sun Yingsha (first from left), Chen Meng (second from left), Manyu Wang (third from right), Wang Yidi (second from right) and Chen Xingtong won the women’s team championship trophy at the award ceremony — — The Columbian Cup. Xinhua News Agency reporter Jiang Hongjing photo

  In the crucial third game, Ito Meicheng once got the point. Under pressure, Manyu Wang didn’t relent, scoring again and again to win the crucial game at 12:10. In the fourth game, Meicheng Ito, who had just suffered a reversal, appeared impatient and made unnecessary mistakes in succession, while Manyu Wang became more and more calm and finally won with a big score of 3:1.

On October 8th, China team coach Li Sun (third from left) and players Sun Yingsha (first from left), Chen Meng (second from left), Manyu Wang (third from right), Wang Yidi (second from right) and Chen Xingtong won the women’s team championship trophy at the award ceremony — — The Columbian Cup. Xinhua News Agency reporter Liu Xushe

  Next, Sun Yingsha, with stronger comprehensive strength, played against Japanese player Nagasaki Meiyou. Although the opponent performed well, it failed to pose too much threat to Sun Yingsha. In the end, Sun Yingsha won 3-0, thus helping China to win 3-0.

  At this point, the China women’s team won the World Table Tennis Championships in Chengdu with an impressive record of winning all eight games, and won the Columbian Cup as expected, and achieved five consecutive championships in the World Table Tennis Championships.

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Amber: Berlusconi is obsessed with beautiful football. He wants to control the ball more & win through wonderful performance.

Live broadcast on November 2 nd In the podcast, Milan star Ambrosini talked about the demands of former President Silvio Berlusconi on Milan.

Ambrosini said: "Berlusconi likes beautiful things. He hopes to win the game by playing wonderful games, and he has always been obsessed with it."

"I still remember one time during the halftime of the game, Berlusconi walked into the dressing room and told us in front of everyone that he wanted to see the team get more possession of the ball. This moment is called’ Marisa’, which means to control the ball. We players look at each other, but this is Berlusconi’s personality. "

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Why are dogs pets and pigs food? Man’s attitude towards animals is never rational.

Author: (America) Hal Herzog
Integration: Li Yan
Why are dogs pets and pigs food? The question itself is enough to catch people’s attention. In recent years, there have been endless debates about animal protection, especially when it comes to dogs, cats and other animals that are usually domestic pets. For example, the Yulin Dog Meat Festival every summer will always set off a bloody storm in the public opinion field. One of the main viewpoints of those who oppose eating dog meat is that dogs have different meanings to human beings from other animals, while those who hold the opposite view argue that dogs should have equal lives with pigs, cows and chickens, and it is unreasonable to oppose eating dog meat alone.
Compared with the arguments that seem to be unable to convince each other, Hal Herzog, an American human-animal relationist and professor of psychology at the University of West Carolina, wrote why dogs are pets and pigs are food? 》
(Why It Is So Hard to Think Straight About Animals)
It is much more peaceful. He doesn’t try to choose one of the above two viewpoints to support it, thinking it is more "correct", but discusses the complexity, inconsistency and reasons of moral concepts from the psychological level of people.
With regard to people’s attitude towards other species, the author expressed his opinion in the first sentence of the preface: "People often think about other species in a very illogical way." In the book, he used one story after another recorded for many years to show the different moral attitudes of rebellious people towards animals, and how many contradictions exist among them. Why can’t dogs eat but pigs can? Why is the giant panda more popular than the Chinese giant salamander? Why is it that catching dead fish in the market is entertainment, but if catching dead cats is considered cruel? People are not as rational as they think, at least when they treat animals.
Why is this so? The author said that the purpose of this book is not to change anyone’s moral stance or the way of treating animals, but to guide readers to think more deeply about the psychological logic and moral implications behind the relationship between human beings and animals. Compared with arguing endlessly about specific issues, facing the fact that there are a lot of moral inconsistencies in our cognition and behavior soberly and calmly can help us recognize human nature and the way in which reason and emotion interact with each other in our brains.
The following article is taken from Why Dogs Are Pets and Pigs Are Food with the authorization of the publishing house.
"Why dogs are pets and pigs are food", by Hal Herzog, translated by Leo Sen, Hainan Publishing House, June 2019.
Why do you like this and hate that? -because it’s cute.
It is easier to empathize with dogs than fleas. -Eric Green(Eric Grenen)
Judy Barrett of Greensburg, North Carolina
(Judy Barrett)
There is a question. She and her husband are both blue jays fans. They spent a lot of money in the backyard, hoping to attract blue birds to nest, and even bought a snake-proof blue nest box and a unique bird glass jar. Judy will prepare a nest of earthworms in the refrigerator so that the bluebird can enjoy the worm meal at any time. Judy’s family welcomes bluebirds to nest with open arms, but the reality is not as good as expected. When they were not paying attention, an ordinary sparrow couple occupied the nest box and laid five small sparrow eggs in the future bluebird home.
At a loss, Judy sent a letter to The New York Times’s "moralist"
(The Ethicist)
Columnist Randy Cohen(Randy Cohen)
This column is based on Abby mailbox.(Dear Abby)
Style, quick questions and answers for daily moral problems.
Judy asked, is it ethical to destroy the low-grade sparrow eggs because she wants to keep the nest for the lovely bluebird?
Cohen’s answer is no. "In the face of morality, loveliness doesn’t count."
Logically speaking, Cohen is right. But although loveliness is not important in the narrow sense of moral philosophy, it is quite important to most people and even affects people’s attitude towards this creature. For example, the survey shows that the amount of money people are willing to donate to save endangered creatures depends on the size of their eyes. This is undoubtedly a death knell for the endangered Chinese giant salamander. Chinese giant salamander is the largest and probably the ugliest amphibian in the world. Its eyes are bright and its 2-meter-long body is surrounded by a dark brown sticky epidermis. Environmental groups will never publish the picture of Chinese giant salamander on the donation leaflet, after all, it looks too ugly. In contrast, another endangered animal in China is much more pleasant, that is, the panda whose eyes are infinitely magnified by the outer black circle. Their shapes are so adorable that they even become the symbol of WWF.
Chinese giant salamander
There are 65,000 species of mammals, fish, reptiles and amphibians in the world, but only a few animals are concerned by human beings. Why do we care about giant pandas instead of Chinese giant salamanders? Why do we care about eagles and not vultures? Why do we care about bluebirds instead of sparrows? Why do we care about cheetahs instead of palm fruit bats?
(the only male mammal that can secrete milk)
? Whether we care about a particular animal usually depends on its own characteristics-whether they are lovable, what size they are, what shape their heads are, and whether they are furry.(not bad)
Still sticky.(disgusting)
Yes, whether they are similar to humans, points will be deducted if they have too many feet or too few feet. Whether they have disgusting habits, such as eating excrement or sucking blood, has something to do with their taste, but their influence is not as great as we think.
Human beings always think about the relationship with different animals in an illogical way, and it is difficult to make a final conclusion. We always think that we are rational animals, but the research of cognitive psychology and behavioral economics shows that human thinking and behavior are often illogical. For example, it has been reported that when researchers privately asked respondents how much they would like to donate to prevent oil pond pollution and protect waterfowl habitats, on average, the respondents expressed their willingness to save 2,000 birds with $80, 20,000 birds with $78 and 200,000 birds with $88. Sometimes, even animals can make more rational decisions than humans. A recent report pointed out that when choosing a new house, a group of ants can often make a more rational choice than human house buyers.
What is the state of human psychology that makes it impossible to think logically in the face of animals? In fact, the so-called human thinking is simply a brain storm that combines intuition, learning, language, culture, instinct and psychological shortcuts, so it is really difficult for us to deal with the relationship with other species logically and rationally.
Before animal morality, sensibility trumps reason.
For a long time, people have been discussing whether human moral sense comes from emotion or rational speculation. David hume, an 18th-century philosopher, thought that moral sense originated from emotion, while Kant thought that morality originated from reason. When I became interested in the psychology of human-animal relationship, I decided to find out what people were thinking when they thought about moral issues related to other animals. At that time, the field of moral psychology was Harvard psychologist lawrence kohlberg.
(Lawrence Kohlberg)
Like Kant, Kohlberg also believes that all moral decisions mostly come from careful thinking: we weigh the pros and cons of actions before making logical decisions. Kohlberg mainly studies the development of children’s moral thinking. He will tell the children a dilemma story, and then ask them to make a decision and explain the reasons behind the thinking. Kohlberg’s most classic story is about Hans, a poor man who stole expensive pills from a greedy boss to save his wife with cancer. When judging whether Hans had the right to steal drugs, Kohlberg’s children played the spirit of logicians. They weighed the possibility of Hans being arrested and the happiness that his wife might bring when she recovered.
Me and my student Shelley galvin.
(Shelley Galvin)
This experimental method is used to study how people view the animals tested in the laboratory. Our research method is very simple. Respondents can analyze a series of animal experimental situations by themselves, and then we ask respondents whether they agree or disagree with specific experiments and the reasons behind the decision: in one experiment, researchers must take stem cells from monkey embryos and transplant them into the brains of adult monkeys in order to treat Alzheimer’s disease; In order to study the role of genes and experience in the development of complex action patterns, another experimenter requested that the forelimbs of newborn mice be amputated. Both experiments are based on real experiments.
About half of the respondents accepted the monkey experiment, while only a quarter of the respondents supported the mouse amputation research. As far as monkey brain experiments are concerned, children tend to think rationally and carefully weigh the costs and benefits of sacrificing animal rights. But when faced with the issue of amputation of rats, children take a different attitude. Facing the amputation experiment, children wrote down such things as: "I object to this experiment", "Please think about the face of the amputated mouse", or even "it’s too much". Our interviewees responded emotionally to the amputation experiment of young rats instead of rationally.
Judging from the main theories of psychological and moral development, we estimate that the interviewees will take logic as their thinking principle. However, we found that children let their emotions break away. This result is obviously related to Jon Heder, the leader of contemporary moral psychology.
(Jon Haidt)
As he said, Heidt thinks that emotion often trumps reason on moral issues. Like most psychologists, Heidegger believes that human cognition involves two processes. First, it is instinctive, quick, subconscious, effortless and emotional, and then it is thoughtful, conscious, logical and completely slow. Usually, only after our intuitive judgment can we get rid of the cognitive fog and re-examine whether the original judgment dominated by emotions is appropriate.
Heidett believes that most human beings use the above two systems to make moral judgments, but illogical intuitive systems usually dominate. Heidt’s theory seems to fully echo Lucy, a special educator and animal rights activist I visited. When I asked her what role logic and emotion played in the practice of animal activism, Lucy said, "This is usually related to emotion, but in many cases, I have to find rational evidence for my emotional response, so that I can defend my position and influence others."
When people are asked if that family can eat their pets, most people will immediately categorically deny: "No! Of course you can’t eat your own dog! " But when you ask the other person to think rationally and explain what’s wrong with eating dead and painless animal carcasses, almost all the interviewees can’t give a logical explanation. Heidt called this judgment "a moral problem that makes people laugh and cry." The real reason is nausea, because it is so disgusting.
University of Pennsylvania psychologist Paul Rozin
(Paul Rozin)
Think that nausea is also a moral emotion. Generally speaking, human beings think it is disgusting to have sex with brothers and sisters. The products of the body, such as feces, urine and menstruation, are also extremely disgusting to people, and this aversion can be said to be regardless of racial culture.
We’re all hypocrites?
Is the life of spiders as important as that of egrets and human beings? Of course, logically speaking, this is completely correct. -Joan Diar
Stop making fun. No matter in any era or culture, human beings have always been hypocrites. When we criticize the hypocrisy of others, we also reveal our own absurdity. -Jon Heder.
In June, 2009, the American Veterinary Association decided to let the 10,000 veterinarians and auxiliary professionals attending the annual meeting build a sense of team trust with the wonderful activities of catching big fish. People for the ethical treatment of animals is obviously quite dissatisfied with this design, and Ashley Byrne, the project manager of the organization,
(Ashley Byrne)
An article published in the Los Angeles Times wrote: "It’s crazy to kill animals so that participants can pick up their bodies. And what a bad message does it send to the public when veterinarians take pleasure in catching the carcasses of big fish? " This passage was regarded as a laughing stock by the TV media. At first, I thought Ashley seemed too harsh. However, people for the ethical treatment of animals later issued a statement, saying, Will the participants laugh so much when they see the men in gray hats throwing the dead cats? Only then did I realize that the organization was right. Why do humans find it interesting to catch dead fish, but not the dead cat?
The deep connection between man and pet
(The Powerful Bond Between People and Pets)
Author elizabeth anderson.(Elizabeth Anderson)
I am quite confused about the inconsistency of this moral attitude. For example, she can’t understand why many pet owners wear mink coats. Anderson wrote: "I really can’t understand why owners who love cats and dogs enough to kiss them are indifferent to the fact that seals are shot in the head, skinned or mink are electrocuted by anus." In fact, this is not surprising. Those who melt instantly when they see kittens are also likely to love the color of fur. Even people who stand up for animal rights often make such contradictory actions. Scott Plous, a social psychologist, found that among the animal rights activists he interviewed, nearly 70% thought that banning clothing made of animal fur should be regarded as the primary goal of the animal protection movement, but they also admitted that they also wore leather products.
Psychologists have always known that people often don’t do what they say. A generally accepted attitude theory is called A-B-C model, which holds that the so-called attitude contains three elements-emotion: your emotional feeling about a thing; Behavior: how your attitude affects your external behavior; Cognition: How much do you know about one thing? Many times, these elements will work together. Rob Bass is a good example. Rob, a 52-year-old philosopher, has always lived a smooth life. In 2001, he read an article by anthropologist Mylan Engel.
(Mylan Engel)
After writing the article, life has changed greatly. Rob was surprised by Engel’s persuasive remarks against meat. He spent three whole weeks hoping to find out Engel’s logical mistakes or contradictions. After a month, he gave in completely. When he found out what Engel said was true(Perceptual change)
He knew that he had to stop eating meat.(Behavior change)
. A few weeks later, when he walked into the cafeteria on campus with his colleagues, he just smelled the strong smell of fried hamburger meat, and his body immediately responded: "disgusting, that smell is disgusting."(Emotional change)
. "Engel’s article made Rob have a cyclical change in emotion, perception and behavior. Now, Rob and his wife Gail Dean(Gayle Dean)
After a similar transition period, both became vegans. They oppose any form of animal exploitation, and Rob also teaches animal rights issues in moral courses.
But Rob and Gail are very few examples. Most people are not only indifferent, but also will not feel frustrated because of their contradictory behavior towards animals. The Los Angeles Times was commissioned to survey American adults’ views on the following statement by random sampling: "Do you agree that animals and humans are the same in all important points of view?" The newspaper said that about 47% people agreed with this view. I am rather skeptical about the results of the survey, so I want to know what my students think of the above statement. I made a survey of 100 students. The questionnaire not only included questions from the Los Angeles Times, but also added many questions about the treatment of animals. The results show that my suspicion is wrong. It’s just right that about 47% of students think that animals are as important as humans, but even so, it has no effect on how they view "animals being used by humans". Among the students who think that animals are as important as human beings, about half are in favor of animal experiments, 40% think it is feasible to remove animal organs to save patients, and 90% eat animals that are the same as human beings in all important points of view more often.
Why can people be so calm about the contradiction between their words and deeds? Most people’s attitude towards how other creatures are treated is exactly what philosophers call "no position"
(nonattitudes)
Or "vague position"(vacuous attitudes)
, by a large number of unrelated ideas combined with simple thoughts. In contrast, the belief system of Rob and Gail was established after thinking deeply about the moral problems related to animals. The relationship between human beings and other species is a very complicated moral issue, and most people who consider themselves animal lovers generally have a compromise idea. For example, the National Polling Center once conducted a survey. When the respondents were asked "How do you feel about animal experiments?", only one-fifth of the respondents would express strong approval or opposition.
Although there are many exceptions, the evidence shows that most people don’t pay so much attention to animal issues. In 2000, Gallup asked American adults to rate the importance of the following social issues, such as abortion rights, animal rights, gun management, environmental protection, women’s rights and consumer rights. As a result, animal rights came last. In 2001, the American humane society organization was commissioned to investigate which animal protection group contributed the most, only to find that half of the respondents couldn’t even name an animal protection group. In addition, a survey shows that only 2% of the boycotters who participate in the consumer movement care about how animals are treated. The fact is, for most people, except for personal pets, how animals are treated is really not their priority.
Billboards put up by vegetarians.
Why are we like this?
Leon festinger, 1950.
(Leon Festinger)
Put forward a heavyweight theory in psychology-when our beliefs, behaviors and attitudes are at odds, we will enter what he calls "cognitive dissonance"(cognitive dissonance)
The state of. Because cognitive dissonance brings extremely uncomfortable feelings, people try to reduce this kind of trouble caused by mental inconsistency. For example, we may change our beliefs or behaviors, or deny or distort evidence about facts.
Environmental ethicist Chris Dimm
(Chris Diehm)
Believe that human beings strive for moral consistency. He said that whenever he pointed out to the other side that the way he treated animals was inconsistent, the other side would try to correct their behavior as much as possible, or at least they would try to justify it so as to make themselves appear to be one with words. He wrote: "We have to admit that the moral relationship between human beings and animals is a confused and contradictory road: cats are pets and cows are food. When you point out the absurdity of the other person’s behavior, they will try to rationalize their behavior or make some changes in their comfort zone. I think it is a good thing to pursue moral consistency, and when people’s words and deeds are different, it will trigger us to carry out moral dialectics and thinking. "
Chris is a philosopher, and he is more concerned about the efforts of human beings to integrate their beliefs and behaviors. I am a psychologist, and I am more concerned about the carelessness shown by human beings in the face of moral issues between themselves and animals. In my experience, most people, whether cockfighters, animal researchers or pet owners, will never admit their mistakes when you point out their moral inconsistency in the face of animals.
(Sometimes I laugh quite unnaturally)
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In a word, moral consistency is not only vague but also almost out of reach. In the real world, whether it’s our minds or emotions, we can’t decide how to treat animals.
Author: Hal Herzog
Integration: Li Yan
Editor: Li Yongbo, He Anan
Proofreading: Zhai Yongjun
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Raphael Jr.

I used to think it was wrong to eat dog meat. When someone asked me why I ate pork, I wouldn’t refute it. What I should say now is that I don’t care what other people eat, but please don’t deliberately kill them to eat meat. A happy death is better than a tortured death. I couldn’t accept eating dog meat before. One thing is that I have a dog myself. Another thing is that many dog shops are very cruel. There are also many people who steal dogs. In summary, they will be very cruel to eat dog meat.

2019-07-22

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Raphael Jr.

Hehe, get high yourself, make a gentleman not a villain.

2019-07-27

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Raphael Jr.

What’s the difference between your current behavior and a mad dog? What do you think if you say you won, you won’t push your luck, not a mad dog? A word has exposed your own position on yourself. A just person is ok. A just messenger who talks online is awesome.

2019-07-27

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God of the origin of all evil.

Humans take the contribution of animals as the standard. In ancient times, humans raised cattle for plowing, so no one ate them or seldom ate them at that time, so the status of cattle was very high in the past. In ancient times, dogs were raised to look after caregivers and hunt, and their status was not as high as that of cattle, while pigs and chickens raised them for only one purpose, that is, to eat, and their status was very low. With the development of society, cattle became less important, so humans no longer relied on them.

2019-07-23

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XiaoyangSHuo esports sh

Fans in the game field

Moreover, what we are discussing is the handling of urban dogs, not the so-called dog dealers and dog thieves, but the conflict between urban stray dogs and people! Look at the latest news for yourself, how many conflicts between dogs and people there are! Look at the foreign regulations on pet dogs! I think China’s laws should be learned from foreign countries, so as not to be wanton under the pretext of law!

2019-07-26

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XiaoyangSHuo esports sh

Fans in the game field

What data do you call this? Do you have specific figures and proportions? How many restaurant dogs are stolen? What’s the ratio? Is there any police intervention? How many dog owners have found their dogs in restaurants? Do you have these data? You can’t deny everything just by one case. This is cynical, not a rational human thought! ! !

2019-07-26

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Zhenweiai 0Y

The statement that life is equal is the biggest lie. Human beings are born equal, but life is never equal, and human beings will always have priority over other lives, unless you stop being a man. Life is only a certain combination of matter, and it is only a machine in essence. Life itself is not worthy of respect, but the rationality and emotion it shows. The reason why we don’t abuse cats and dogs is that their high rationality and emotional ability can stimulate human empathy. No one will empathize with plants or bacteria, and substitute human emotional ability into animals to draw the absurd conclusion that all beings are equal. This is the biggest mistake of animal protection organizations.

2019-07-23

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Arouet discussion

Understand people, the essence of life is a complex machine.

2019-07-27

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Zhenweiai 0Y

If an animal approaches or threatens Danone’s status, human beings will definitely kill him.

2019-07-25

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True base is not afraid of corruption.

This is a false proposition, pigs can also be pets, dogs can also be food! I am a dog lover. At the same time, I also eat dog meat and I don’t restrict others from eating dog meat. I just don’t approve of stealing dogs, beating dogs and abusing dogs. Love dogs should not be extreme, hate dogs should not be excessive, love dogs rationally and put people first. Don’t love, please don’t hurt, you can love, and don’t be bad. Everything is reasonable and law-abiding. Being a human being should be reasonable. After all, people can think and have ideas. What we have to do is to know right from wrong, to know good from evil. The owner of a dog should not blindly cover up his mistakes, because he is brave enough to take responsibility. If his own dog is not well-bred, he can’t pretend to love a dog for it.

2019-07-22

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A drop of mercury on an aluminum sheet

Eaten in a hurry

2019-07-24

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The account has been cancelled.

It’s not that you can’t eat, it’s that you can’t abuse life, like the live bear who used to take courage is abusing.

2019-07-23

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Starry night sky

First of all, it is a false proposition that dogs are friends of human beings, and dogs are friends of their owners; The law on eating dog meat doesn’t say that you can’t eat it or that you can eat it. The law can’t control it. If something goes wrong, just take responsibility for it and it won’t interfere with other people’s affairs. For the source of dog meat, there are meat dogs and thieves. Please take out the evidence of the thief and find the dog thief. Don’t worry about the meat dog, and you can’t control it. The meat of pet dogs is not delicious, which is based on the feedback from major netizens; It is also illegal to destroy other people’s property without permission. Whether it is stealing a dog or smashing a shop, please compensate according to the price of the damage. It is illegal to destroy other people’s property. Please comment on quality.

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CoVa

Those who have eaten pet dogs are quite Doha.

2019-07-26

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Fish-teasing stray cats

It’s not said that you can’t eat, because dogs have been food for thousands of years, and it doesn’t need another explanation by law. Have you ever heard of any kind of food that you often eat, and it is clearly stated in which law that it is food?

2019-07-25

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Floating like a wind, back to snow LSF

However, even vegans are faced with an irrational question: Can wolves be prevented from eating sheep? This is the nature of the biological chain. The law of the jungle fights each other, and this relationship is necessary. It will promote the evolution of species and control the number of species to ensure balance. Peaceful coexistence in this world is acquired, and selfish competition is the nature of all species. (Why are animals selfish? See Selfish Genes.)

2019-07-21

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La la la la jrfI

Hmm. How interesting

2019-07-28

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dkdndjf

Wolves eat sheep and sheep eat grass. Living things need to eat, and not attacking other living things means extinction.

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Mystery piece soup cat

Treat the non-existent equally. Everything is attributed to the needs of human beings. For pets, human beings can treat them as food, but this is equivalent to burning a harp and cooking a crane. When there is enough firewood, there is no need to use the piano as fuel. Similarly, pets can meet many needs other than human consumption. It is difficult to get feedback when communicating with people, while animals are much simpler, even if sometimes it is only one-way. If we make it clear, we can understand why animals are not treated equally. Cats and dogs are in line with the aesthetics of most people, so they are more cherished in the eyes of human beings, just like watching a piano is better than watching a piece of wood. Everything is human needs.

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CoVa

This human words, really not necessarily.

2019-07-26

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Puppet show

It’s not symbiosis. Humans and dogs can survive without each other. Domestication was just hunting.

2019-07-23

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The account has been cancelled.

Life is precious, love is more expensive;
If you are free, you can throw both.
Those who really love dogs will not deprive them of their freedom to keep them. Because love is a kind of giving, not possession, such as the family love that parents give to their children for free. The so-called love for dogs by people who love dogs is to satisfy their own selfish desires. This is just a hobby, not love.
Dog powder unilaterally deprives animals of their freedom and equal rights and enslaves animals as emotional sustenance, which is not a moral noble behavior, such as fighting cricket and walking myna. So, don’t flaunt the selfish hobby of dog powder as great.
Kindness can’t be double standard,
Refuse to keep pets;
Return the earth to beauty,
Return life to freedom.
If you love dogs, please return your freedom to them first!

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@ Fully embody haha

Loving dogs is a program written in people’s genes, not morbid. You just don’t express your love for dogs like them, but if you change your past experience, you may like dogs.

2019-07-23

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La la la la jrfI

Brother, there are so many people stealing dogs now, and dogs don’t necessarily want to.

2019-07-28

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The account has been cancelled.

Who told you that people should give up their towns to dogs to set them free? The freedom of animals is in the wild.

2019-07-26

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Shiying quality assurance

What about the food? In a truly civilized country, pets, food and experimental animals should all enjoy animal welfare! When pigs grow to a certain extent, they will become human food, yes; But civilized human beings will make pigs have a certain quality of life when they are alive and die without pain.

2019-07-22

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Sun jiao beast xp

You still have to eat meat if you say it in a grandiose way.

How can anyone not bleed, or do you think beheading is more merciful? Look at that fish. It’s all disemboweled and still swimming around. What should I do?

As for the abuse and torture, there is no need to waste all that time.

2019-07-26

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Shiying quality assurance

It’s not interesting for you to say these things here. I’m not afraid of anything. I just hope that most people will become civilized, not including you.

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Cold and frosty

In some countries, you can’t eat beef, because you think cows are cultivated land and it is unjust to eat them.

2019-07-21

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CoVa

I think it is to let animals play their greatest value.

2019-07-26

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Empty ink

Not injustice, but faith. For example, we don’t eat cats in our hometown.

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Haha king 12345678

Who says dogs are pets and pigs are food? Obviously it’s all pets and food! There is a special meat dog factory and a lovely pet pig! The reason why eating dog meat has always been emphasized is that many dog meat dealers steal people’s dogs as pets and sell them, or directly catch stray dogs and kill them, so this is the key! I have a dog, too, and I like dogs! Many places are inseparable from the help of dogs!

2019-07-22

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Zero clock VoV

Therefore, it is not the dog eaters who are condemned, but the people who illegally obtain dog meat and receive these dog meat.

2019-07-23

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Zero clock VoV

Stealing dogs infringes people’s property rights, using stray dogs does not meet health standards, and eating dog meat is not illegal, but dog meat must have a regular and healthy source. Also, Chinese Korean dog meat hotpot is their specialty food!

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Fully embody haha

In fact, it is not necessary to say that people are irrational. The article is right. People tend to empathize with certain species more easily, but doesn’t this reflect that a person can have energy to sympathize with other different species because of his rich food and resources? Let those who have not enough to eat sympathize with cats and dogs. For a long time in the past, individuals who can have enough food can get more mating rights. Big-eyed creatures can be reminiscent of human babies. Human babies must have big eyes and have enough food to feed small animals. So this is why some people like young animals such as kittens and pandas.

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Fully embody haha

People can make the right decision by jumping out of the limitations of human beings from the perspective of nature, but they can’t fall into the sense of pleasure and superiority of self-incarnation as God and nature. People are always people.

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La la ah vtLbV

I think it’s hard to say. . . I understand that the author is looking at human behavior from a perspective other than human beings. This is not hypocrisy, after all, the study of modern philosophy is to put aside your own human nature and social ethics, and you will feel more condescending. But I agree with what you said. On the other hand, when people try to think from a standpoint other than their own race, isn’t it a manifestation of their purposefulness and sensibility? I can only say that this way of thinking is invented by human beings, based on sensibility and aiming at rationality, and it is indeed of practical significance. It’s just that the author doesn’t use it well . .

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Qiqi Abcd

Dogs can meet the needs of human emotions and utilization. To put it bluntly, pigs do not have these skills at all, so they eat them.

2019-07-21

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可以参考一下!
爱狗人士因为自己的所作所为,已经被社会大众定义贬义词。
1、极端的狗主:为了狗和他自己的方便,常常无视文明养狗的规定。这类人可以通过完善的法规和严格的执法纠正过来。
2、相关利益方:宠物从业者和骗捐者,他们自己并不一定爱狗、养狗,但他们会通过一系列的虚假宣传运作,诱使他人来购买产品、服务和骗取捐款。尤其是骗捐者,他们会主动参与一些救狗行为,以此来增加知名度,为骗捐作准备。他们还会为了一己私利去践踏法律的做出一些拦路劫车、砸狗肉馆、逼人跪狗、仗狗打人、侵犯隐私等等恶行。对于此类,政府应依法对其进行严厉的惩戒。
3、境外组织的代言人:有反华、反人类的一些伪动保组织,也包括在欧美也诟病的极端伪动保。代言人收取国外组织提供资金,在大陆进行虚假宣传和煽动,挑起国民为了狗去对立,煽动极端分子冲击政府机关和军事基地,以此来扰乱和平发展的中国社会。同样,它们也会非法的去做出拦路劫狗等恶行。但是它们的目的却不同,第二类只求财,而它们却是数典忘祖的在卖国求奴!对于此类,国人一定要擦亮眼睛,千万不要做它们的炮灰!而且一定要将它们曝露在阳光下来赶尽杀绝!否则国无宁日!

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Sun jiao beast xp

It’s a little expensive, just eat it occasionally. Every day in China, there is a dog vaccine that is bitten by dogs, and it never stops. Why are there so many crazy dog lovers (people who don’t allow others to eat dog meat) who oppose abuse and stealing? Please be rational.

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Twilight seeking knowledge big ram

People protect lovable animals and repel unpleasant animals. Take a chestnut as an example: in the 20th century, there was a forest in America, which was full of vitality, and it had already been before that. There are a group of deer in the forest. Although they are cute, it doesn’t make them escape from the wolves. Roosevelt decided to protect these deer, so he hired many hunters with a lot of money to kill wolves. Soon, the number of wolves dropped sharply, not only wolves, but also other deer-eating animals such as cheetahs were killed at gunpoint. Deer have become favorites. Because they have no natural enemies, they breed and eat the plants in the forest at will. Later, bad luck also fell on the deer. Words are limited!

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Twilight seeking knowledge big ram

Up posture, thank you.

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Tiger shark 2012

This is a matter of Yellowstone National Park in the United States. Finally, it took a lot of money to introduce gray wolves to rebuild the wolves to stop the deer from flooding.

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Bierlaici

I’m different. I don’t fucking like pork but dog meat. I heard there was swine fever this year. Now I eat braised dog meat once a week. I feel that dog meat is the most fragrant among meat.

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Orchid leaf Gudan 0Gb

? Smells good? ? warn

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Xiao Yu ying xian

Can he not hold a grudge if you eat his father?

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Gluten meatball

Maybe I’m too philanthropic. I like to keep all animals except people, including plants, as long as it’s predestined friends. As for those who eat it or not, it depends on their feelings. I kept the baby chicken for a week and died. I didn’t eat chicken for three years. The baby pig was raised in my grandmother’s house for a few days when I was a child, so I didn’t eat pork before I was ten years old, and I hardly ate fish before I raised it. Only the dog has the deepest feelings and almost accompanied my whole life, so I never ate dog meat all my life.

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Sun jiao beast xp

Girl, you are so cute, very hahaha.

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Gluten meatball

I can’t say it’s fraternity, but I value my feelings.

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We are not cute.

What does eating have to do with being cute? How much of the same sample can only catch up with the meat of one? How much does it cost?

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Sun jiao beast xp

So there are still too many crazy dog lovers, which makes the price of dog meat rise again.

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Therefore, it is still necessary to meet different consumer needs.

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Reshiram X.

Dogs can help people, and pork is delicious. This is the reason.

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Bigteacher3Y

Sorry, I think dog meat tastes better. Can I eat dog without being sprayed?

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CoVa

Police pig, it seems that you are only trained to try one aspect, right? Police dogs are different, right?

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可以参考一下!
爱狗人士因为自己的所作所为,已经被社会大众定义贬义词。
1、极端的狗主:为了狗和他自己的方便,常常无视文明养狗的规定。这类人可以通过完善的法规和严格的执法纠正过来。
2、相关利益方:宠物从业者和骗捐者,他们自己并不一定爱狗、养狗,但他们会通过一系列的虚假宣传运作,诱使他人来购买产品、服务和骗取捐款。尤其是骗捐者,他们会主动参与一些救狗行为,以此来增加知名度,为骗捐作准备。他们还会为了一己私利去践踏法律的做出一些拦路劫车、砸狗肉馆、逼人跪狗、仗狗打人、侵犯隐私等等恶行。对于此类,政府应依法对其进行严厉的惩戒。
3、境外组织的代言人:有反华、反人类的一些伪动保组织,也包括在欧美也诟病的极端伪动保。代言人收取国外组织提供资金,在大陆进行虚假宣传和煽动,挑起国民为了狗去对立,煽动极端分子冲击政府机关和军事基地,以此来扰乱和平发展的中国社会。同样,它们也会非法的去做出拦路劫狗等恶行。但是它们的目的却不同,第二类只求财,而它们却是数典忘祖的在卖国求奴!对于此类,国人一定要擦亮眼睛,千万不要做它们的炮灰!而且一定要将它们曝露在阳光下来赶尽杀绝!否则国无宁日!

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It’s a little expensive, just eat it occasionally. Every day in China, there is a dog vaccine that is bitten by dogs, and it never stops. Why are there so many crazy dog lovers (people who don’t allow others to eat dog meat) who oppose abuse and stealing? Please be rational.

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You came in to do your duty?

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Guang C00628

Those who gave their love to dogs. . . I left the hurt and sadness to the people around me. . . And boast that you are a caring person. Good-hearted people. . To: dog lovers

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I don’t know what to call it.

Not everyone is like this, okay?

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It should be pseudo-lovers. These people don’t really love dogs just for hype.

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Jiangsu Competing for Famous Software City: From "the First in China" to "the First in Quantity"

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At the beginning of the new year, the Ministry of Industry and Information Technology issued a notice on the evaluation results of China’s famous software cities in 2023. Among the 14 famous software cities in China, Jiangsu is "the only one in China", namely Nanjing, Suzhou and Wuxi.
In fact, as a big manufacturing province, Jiangsu is also a big software province, and the software industry, especially industrial software, is the key support for building a strong manufacturing province. The data shows that in 2023, Jiangsu Province completed software business income of 1.4 trillion yuan, a year-on-year increase of 9.5%; Among them, the industrial software industry chain realized business income of 325.98 billion yuan, a year-on-year increase of 15.2%.
The implementation of 19 measures to accelerate the independent innovation of industrial software, the issuance of "Measures for the Administration of Famous Software Parks in Jiangsu Province", and the promotion of software industry policies around the province … started in the beginning of the year, and the construction of Jiangsu’s software industry accelerated. The work report of Jiangsu provincial government also proposed to promote the high-quality development of industrial software when deploying key work in 2024.
China (Nanjing) Software Valley is an important gathering place of software industry. Photo courtesy of Propaganda Department of Yuhuatai District Committee of Nanjing City
Nanjing gets there first.
"Software Avenue" is the first road named after an industry in Nanjing, with a total length of 5.3 kilometers. Every morning rush hour, code farmers come from all sides and flock to software enterprises along the line.
Nanjing is the first city in Jiangsu to develop its software industry. In 2001, when the software business income was only 1.8 billion yuan, Nanjing proposed to break through 10 billion yuan during the Tenth Five-Year Plan period and achieved it as scheduled. Four years later, the city officially announced the construction of "China’s famous software city" and held the first Nanjing "Soft Expo", positioning the software industry as "the first priority to encourage the development of industries".
By 2010, the scale of Nanjing’s software industry exceeded 100 billion yuan for the first time, making it the first "famous software city in China". Since then, China (Nanjing) Software Valley, Nanjing Software Park and Jiangsu Software Park, which have been carefully laid out locally, have taken shape.
Under the siphon of industrial environment, head software enterprises have successively landed. ZTE and Huawei took the lead in choosing a site to settle down. Over the years, a number of head enterprises, such as Alibaba Jiangsu Headquarters and ByteDance Nanjing R&D Center, have also settled in Nanjing to feed back small and medium-sized enterprises, forming a cluster development pattern of "taking the big and taking the small".
At present, there are about 850,000 software-related employees in Nanjing, with about 4,000 key software-related enterprises, and 53 universities in the city offer software-related majors. In 2022, Nanjing’s software and information service industries were among the first national advanced manufacturing clusters. In 2023, the city’s software business revenue reached 800 billion yuan, ranking first in Jiangsu Province.
Behind the "soft" strength is the "soft environment". The Zijin Index of High-quality Development of Software Industry in China (2023) shows that Nanjing ranks first in terms of policy environment and the establishment of special funds. In the past two years, the Action Plan of Nanjing to Promote the Upgrading of Famous Software Cities and Build Trillion-level Industries and the Action Plan of Nanjing to Promote Strong Industrial Cities (2023-2025) have been issued successively, which further helps to build a good ecology of the software industry.
Under the exemplary role of Nanjing, since the 13th Five-Year Plan, the scale of Jiangsu’s software industry has been in the forefront of the country. In 2020, the scale of Jiangsu software industry exceeded one trillion for the first time. Before and after this, Suzhou and Wuxi were successively honored as "Famous Cities with Software Characteristics in China".
Wuxi national software park. Photo courtesy of Propaganda Department of Xinwu District Committee of Wuxi City
Overall layout of Jiangsu province
Since 2012, Suzhou has applied for the title of "China’s Famous Software City", and the average annual growth rate of software business income is close to 20%. In the field evaluation of the establishment of China’s famous software city organized by the Ministry of Industry and Information Technology in 2018, the evaluation expert group agreed that Suzhou’s software industry continued to develop rapidly and gave an evaluation score of 106.7 points. The following year, Suzhou was awarded "China Famous City with Software Characteristics" in the direction of industrial software.
It is close to Wangshan in the north and only two kilometers away from Taihu Lake in the east, and the area where Taihu Software Park is located is surrounded by mountains and waters. There are both good scenery and good industries here, and a batch of software enterprises have settled down one after another, and the industrial agglomeration effect has been highlighted.
Through scientific layout and dislocation development, Suzhou has formed an industrial software core cluster represented by Jinjihu Software Industrial Park, Taihu Software Industrial Park and Suzhou High-tech Software Park. In addition, Suzhou has also built two famous software parks in Jiangsu, three provincial-level innovation pilot zones, six provincial-level Internet creative parks and 16 provincial-level "Digital Future" integration and innovation centers, promoting the construction of the first batch of 22 municipal-level digital economy characteristic industrial parks.
Followed by Wuxi, the "Internet of Things Capital of China", in 2021, Wuxi was awarded as "China Famous City with Software Characteristics" in the direction of Internet of Things and platform software.
Wuxi’s selection is also well deserved. People’s Daily noticed that the local government has carried out innovative practices in emerging business fields such as Internet of Vehicles and blockchain, and laid out future industries such as artificial intelligence, metauniverse and quantum computing in advance. In 2023, the business income of Wuxi software industry exceeded 200 billion yuan.
The layout of the whole line is blooming everywhere. As early as 2007, Jiangsu was the first to bless the development of the software industry with the local regulations "Jiangsu Province Software Industry Promotion Regulations". At present, Jiangsu has formed a software industry cluster around Nanjing, Wuxi and Suzhou. The embedded software in Changzhou, Zhenjiang and Nantong, and the information technology service industry in Suqian and Yangzhou have maintained rapid growth … Jiangsu’s software industry is moving in the direction of "Jiangsu, Anhui" and "Jiangsu, Shanghai and Zhejiang", forming a "software innovation corridor along the Yangtze River".
How to achieve a trillion-dollar breakthrough in the software industry with one city? Nanjing is stepping up its efforts to solve problems.
"Focus on improving innovation ability and promote Industry-University-Research’s collaborative research and transformation of technological achievements; Work hard to expand the scale of the industry and accelerate the gathering of a number of global top 500 software companies, top 100 domestic software companies, and listed software companies at home and abroad. " At last year’s China Industrial Software Supply and Demand Conference and China (Nanjing) International Software Products and Information Services Fair, Nanjing Mayor Chen Zhichang put forward the above development goals.
According to the industrial development plan of Nanjing, by 2025, the scale of software and information services in the city will exceed 1 trillion yuan, and the number of software-related employees will exceed 1.1 million. The industrial scale and comprehensive competitiveness will rank among the top in the country.
Industrial software force
In the software industry, industrial software accounts for a small proportion, but it is the brain and nerve of industrial manufacturing. For Jiangsu, which is building a strong province, it is necessary to have both "soft" and "hard".
As a developer of operating systems in the industrial field, the relevant person in charge of Nanjing Yihui said: "The industrial scale of domestic industrial operating systems is currently less than 100 billion, but if it is derived from industrial equipment and intelligent manufacturing scenarios as a base, it is expected to expand to a trillion-dollar market scale in the future."
"In the automobile manufacturing industry, there are some differences between the production plan and the reality, whether it is a large-scale automobile factory or a multi-variety and small-batch small and medium-sized enterprise." Wang Feng, executive vice president of Wuxi Xuelang Industrial Software Research Institute, said, "Based on this, we have developed factory simulation and real-time optimization software, which can preview and verify the production plan in advance, so that the factory can reduce costs and increase efficiency."
In addition to "smart production", industrial software is constantly expanding application scenarios and empowering "smart life". Supported by software algorithms, intelligent traffic scenes such as "smart cars" and "smart roads" in Suzhou can be touched.
Aim at high-end industrial software and seize the new track of the industry. Over the years, a large number of industrial software companies in Nanjing have sharpened their knives with rich industrial scenes, guided by the effective market demand of new manufacturing industries, and made full use of new technologies such as cloud, AI, big data and advanced networks to change the track of scientific and technological competition. At present, Nanjing industrial software products are widely used in key industries such as equipment manufacturing, electronic information, electric power and energy, steel, aviation, aerospace and shipbuilding.
Previously, Jiangsu has listed industrial software as the development focus during the "14 th Five-Year Plan" period in the province’s software industry planning. The advanced layout also made Jiangsu reap fruitful results: in 2023, Jiangsu completed industrial software business income of 325.98 billion yuan, a year-on-year increase of 15.2%, which was 5.7 percentage points higher than the growth rate of the whole software industry.
At the end of December last year, the General Office of Jiangsu Provincial Government issued "Several Policies and Measures on Accelerating Independent Innovation of Industrial Software", which included 19 specific measures from six aspects to further accelerate the high-quality development of basic software and industrial software industry, with emphasis on "supporting the first trial and first use of innovative products".
"Jiangsu still has a strong stamina in the software industry. The research and development of a new generation of artificial intelligence is closely related to Internet big data, and it is necessary to plan from Industry-University-Research in all aspects." Tang Jinhui, dean of the School of Computer (Artificial Intelligence) of Nanjing University of Science and Technology, believes that Jiangsu can do better by striving to create a benign development ecology of "R&D-Application-Iteration".
There are many "quantity", but also "quality". Jiangsu is clear that by 2025, the scale of the province’s software industry will strive to reach 1.6 trillion yuan, cultivate 10 billion-level geese-type software enterprises, and build a national-level software industry cluster.
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Celebrate the Lantern Festival with joy everywhere.

  The lanterns in the streets and alleys are booming, and the dumplings that have just been cooked are steaming, and the atmosphere of the Lantern Festival in the Year of the Tiger is getting stronger and stronger. This year, when the Lantern Festival meets the Winter Olympics, it shows more joy and vitality than before.

  Traditional glutinous rice balls sell well.

  Lantern Festival is celebrated on the fifteenth day of the first month. As a necessary food for festivals, Lantern Festival naturally becomes the "protagonist" on people’s table.

  In recent days, in Beijing Jinfang Ciqikou Snack Shop, the masters in charge of making Yuanxiao are busy from early morning to late night every day. "The store site is expected to shake 10,000 kilograms, plus the gift-packed Yuanxiao shipped from other stores, and it will sell more than 20,000 kilograms a day." Manager Qiu Yunhe said.

  In Guishunzhai, a time-honored brand in Tianjin, customers who came to buy Yuanxiao lined up in a long queue. "The assorted dumplings I bought are the same as the blind box. It’s fun to catch up with whatever stuffing you eat." A young consumer said, "Gui Shunzhai has 12 kinds of classic Yuanxiao flavors, which are handmade by the master, and the old people at home love this flavor."

  "Rolling" Yuanxiao in the north and "wrapping" glutinous rice balls in the south all represent reunion and happiness and family reunion. In the Ningbo Tangtuan Store near the Jiuqu Bridge in Shanghai Yuyuan Garden, many citizens and tourists ate hot freshly cooked dumplings, and there was a long queue at the take-out place at the door of the store to buy raw dumplings. "Please help me get four boxes of black foreign cakes and four boxes of crab powder soup balls." On February 9th, Wang Laobo, a citizen of Shanghai, went to the Yuyuan Garden with his wife to see the lanterns, and bought some handmade dumplings to take home.

  Black sesame, peanut, fruit, taro … … Yuanxiao with various fillings not only satisfies the taste buds, but also conveys the joy and reunion warmth of traditional Chinese festivals.

  Lantern reflects the full moon.

  Lantern Festival is also called Shangyuan Festival and Lantern Festival. Just like "thousands of trees bloom in the east wind night." It is written that there is a full moon in the sky, and lanterns are everywhere in the world. Watching lanterns has become a traditional folk custom of the Lantern Festival.

  In the Datang Furong Garden in Xi ‘an, Shaanxi Province, groups of lanterns such as "Fu Hu You Chun", "Dragon and Phoenix Cheng Xiang" and "Drum Music for a Thousand Years" are brightly lit and colorful, attracting tourists and citizens to watch. It is reported that there are 37 groups of lanterns in Xi ‘an Datang Furong Garden, Datang City that Never Sleeps, Xi ‘an City Wall, Daming Palace National Heritage Park and Yi Sushe Cultural District. All kinds of lanterns light up this ancient city, allowing visitors to experience the annual taste and beauty of "the lights of Shangyuan are all over the sky".

  Dance Shuanglong, Dance Double Lions, Walk on stilts, Nanchang Qingyin, Huangmei Opera and Tea Picking Opera … … In Tengwangge Scenic Spot in Nanchang, Jiangxi Province, there is a festive atmosphere in the Spring Festival Lantern Festival, which is very lively. In addition to viewing lanterns, visitors can also enjoy a variety of folk performing arts activities.

  Solve riddles on the lanterns is also a traditional event of the Lantern Festival. In Wuhan, Hubei Province, there is a lantern riddle in the West Square of Yellow Crane Tower Park, and visitors can get corresponding gifts after guessing correctly. In Chongqing, the Lantern Festival will be held in Meixin Red Wine Town, Fuling. Citizens and tourists can take part in folk activities such as solve riddles on the lanterns, setting off the river lanterns, and taking photos at the lantern punching points such as "Two Towers Reflecting the Moon", "Tiger Lantern" and "Fish Every Year".

  In Guangzhou, Guangdong, the night light show illuminates the city, making tourists shout, "What a shock!" "Proper international norms and modernity" … … At the same time, the arrival of the Lantern Festival also indicates the opening of the local spring outing market. Peach blossoms, plum blossoms and camellias are in full bloom one after another, and enjoying flowers in spring outing has also become a way for citizens to celebrate the Lantern Festival.

  Winter Olympics elements are bright.

  On February 13th, a special activity of "Celebrating the Lantern Festival and Drawing Winter Olympics" was held in Dongao Community, Gaojing Road, Shijingshan District, Beijing. Members of the Winter Olympics volunteer family hand-made exquisite craft lanterns, and members of the painting and calligraphy class carefully drew paintings and calligraphy works such as plum, orchid, bamboo and chrysanthemum on them. Lantern is one of the typical elements of China traditional culture, a symbol of happiness and auspiciousness, and also the prototype of the mascot of Beijing 2022 Paralympic Winter Games, "Snow Rongrong". Everyone also wants to express their wishes for the Beijing Winter Olympics.

  The splendid Winter Olympics and the joyful Lantern Festival "bump into each other", interweaving the unique charm of the 2022 Spring Festival. Many netizens said that this year’s Lantern Festival will watch the Winter Olympics at home and cheer for the Olympic athletes!

  Celebrations around the world are also combined with the Winter Olympics, and there are many ideas. For example, the "Park Classroom" in Hongshan Square, Wuhan, Hubei Province will hold a special activity to lead children to personally make the ultra-light clay version of "Ice Pier" and "Snow Rongrong". In Dongyue Community, Tai ‘an, Shandong Province, children make "orange piers" with oranges to celebrate the Winter Olympics. In Guangyuan Road Community, Shijiazhuang, Hebei Province, people create riddles based on the Winter Olympics and Olympic champions, so that more people can understand the story of Winter Olympics.

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Australian studies reveal the mechanism behind "love is blind"

  According to Xinhua News Agency, Canberra (Reporter Zhang Jianhua), some people joked that "love is blind". Australian researchers try to find out by scientific means. Their research found that when a person falls in love, the related brain reactions will make people put the lover at the center of their lives.

  Researchers from Australian National University and other institutions recently published a paper in the journal Behavioral Science, exploring the connection between the behavioral activation system of human brain and romantic love.

  The researchers surveyed 1,556 young people who were in love. The survey questions mainly focused on their emotional reactions to their partners and related behaviors, as well as their attention to their lovers. It turns out that when a person is in love, his brain will make an unusual reaction and put the lover at the center of life.

  Researchers say that researchers know the role of oxytocin in love, that is, when someone communicates with their lover, oxytocin circulates in their nervous system and blood. Oxytocin, known as "love hormone", is a neurohormone secreted by hypothalamus, which can be secreted by both men and women.

  The researchers further explained that the reason why lovers become particularly important is because of the combination of oxytocin and dopamine. Dopamine is a neurotransmitter secreted by the brain, which is responsible for transmitting feelings of excitement and happiness. Therefore, it can be said that love activates the pathways related to positive emotions in the brain.

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The original facts have proved that Zhu Shimao, who is "a degenerate" in the car, has lived into a "joke"

Original title: As it turns out, Zhu Shimao, who is a "degenerate" in the car, has become a "joke"

In 1982, herdsman was born, and the "Lao Xu" in the play was blown to a classic with one click.

The golden sentence "bread will be there, everything will be there" made it even more eye-catching and was dumped into a national treasure film with a score of 9.1.

This sentence was originally the spiritual food of the Soviet Union, and then it showed infinite hope in the lines in herdsman. It can be said that in the era of poverty, the appearance of herdsman is like a good medicine.

Then the film "herdsman" burst into flames, and Zhu Shimao, who was at the peak of Yan value, was also held into the altar, and the fire was a mess.

The phrase "Old Xu wants a wife but not a wife" in the play shows us the simplicity of marriage in the era of scarcity. A quilt, a shabby house, a pair of couples can help each other

The simplest action of the two is to share porridge, and we can also spy out from it that they are poor in material things but rich in spirit.

Xiuzhi’s sentence "I gave him my heart" also made us realize the quality of Lao Xu.

Lao Xu doesn’t like kimchi, but his Xiuzhi does. Gradually, kimchi became his habit. This is a simple and pure love that loves me, loves my dog.

It can be said that the old Xu in the play is full of a loyal mood; But the old Xu "Zhu Shimao" outside the play is contaminated with women and her private life is messy.

From kissing to kissing, there is nowhere to hide under the camera. Staging a cheating drama ruined the classic Xu Lingjun in the eyes of the public.

An old artist, who enjoys a good reputation in the secular world, has become an old play bone that has been "poked" in the spine, and has even been revealed as "disrespecting the old".

From ten thousand people to ten thousand people, 69-year-old Zhu Shimao was ridiculed by the crowd. How far can he go? Why is it so far!

Did Zhu Shimao wander in his later years?

Time is a "book-tearing man", and even Zhu Shimao’s "clues" are exposed.

Zhu Shimao is a tortured but talented old Xu of herdsman, and was once a good husband who was surrounded by a peach scandal but was tolerated by the public.

When The Shepherd was the most popular, Zhu Shimao was able to keep a "decent" for his wife. Many fans’ ambiguous letters are not enough to shake Zhu Shimao.

At that time, Zhu Shimao responded like this:

They like Xu Lingjun rather than me. Besides, I am married.

Such a man who puts his wife on the table is always so courageous.

But Zhu Shimao, who was in his middle and old age, fell in love with early adopters and cheated.

At the launch conference of a film, Zhu Shimao wantonly kissed an actress on the table, but it was called "interaction". Why not be ironic?

But the moment when Zhu Shimao’s label of "good man" was completely torn was two ambiguous kisses with the actress in the car.

But Zhu Shimao’s response was "out of courtesy".

But what courtesy is enough for a married person to kiss another woman goodbye late at night?

After being pushed to public opinion again and again, Zhu Shimao finally stopped.

After Zhu Shimao was exposed to a series of cheating incidents, many people wondered whether Zhu Shimao had divorced his wife.

According to the public information, Fan Xuxia is still his wife, and the word "before" has not been added.

Perhaps Zhu Shimao pulled back from the brink and decided to return to the family. But it seems that Zhu Shimao is more like a "dragon’s eye" than the old play bone that cheated on the bed.

I have to say that the entertainment circle is really a dye vat. You know, Zhu Shimao used to be such a good man. But in my later years, I couldn’t help it? It is really embarrassing.

How did Zhu Shimao treat his wife, and why? Perhaps we have to find the answer from Zhu Shimao’s famous history and even his marriage with Fan Xuxia.

History of fame and love

Before meeting Fan Xuxia, Zhu Shimao’s life was "barren and hard". There are many resonance points with Xu Lingjun in the film herdsman, from family to marriage.

There are more than a dozen children in the family who need to support, and Zhu Shimao is the sixth in the family. For this poor family, it is natural to help.

The saddest time in the family was the death of Zhu Shimao’s father when he was twelve years old, and the burden of the family completely fell on his mother’s shoulders.

Zhu Shimao often helps his mother do some trivial housework, but this behavior can’t alleviate the financial problems at home. Zhu Shimao, who had no knowledge to support, went to serve as a soldier.

But fortunately, in the end, fate swept him. After Zhu Shimao entered the army, he was promoted to a cadre all the way.

The heavy eyebrows and even the handsome appearance have become a stepping stone, and they have "smashed" all the way to the drama troupe.

It took five years to sharpen a sword, but "Children of Xisha" filmed by Zhu Shimao was "stillborn" due to external reasons.

But tribulation is not enough to knock down Zhu Shimao. Then another film, herdsman, made Zhu Shimao leave the film world completely.

It can be said that it is a legend created by Zhu Shimao to move from a poor child to the film and television industry.

But the weakness of human nature lies in:

When a poor man becomes rich, the first thing to do is to throw away the "crutches" that once supported him.

Zhu Shimao is no exception. At first, he still had a little conscience. But later, Zhu Shimao, under the "baptism" of money, was infected with the common fault of many drama bones in the entertainment circle-cheating.

But judging from Zhu Shimao’s love history, it is not obvious at first that Zhu Shimao will turn to a slut and ignore his wife and children at home.

Zhu Shimao met Fan Xuxia when he first entered the army. One is green, the other is shy, and the pure love in those days is well portrayed in them.

Zhu Shimao carried the baggage to the dormitory for Fan Xuxia, while Fan Xuxia stuffed the steamed bread in the handkerchief into his hand.

A steamed bread becomes a marriage, and the two of them are naturally together.

But at that time, it could only be "underground love." The rule in the regiment is that cadres can’t be ambiguous with soldiers.

Two people through stacks of Fang Gezi stationery, to maintain this relationship.

But then the two of them have to face a crew and a group.

Especially during the filming and release of herdsman, Fan Xuxia was jealous and even more sour.

The public moved Xu Lingjun’s obscure feelings in the play to Zhu Shimao. He and his partner Cong Shan were promoted to the title of "husband and wife".

Fan Xuxia, who is beside me, is only a girlfriend. How can she not be sour?

Any woman can’t stand it. And Zhu Shimao, also noticed his girlfriend Fan Xuxia’s mood.

Then Zhu Shimao married the first lover Fan Xuxia, who had shared weal and woe. At one time, he left the film and television industry and went to the field of comedy sketches.

At that time, it was a new thing that was different from the sketch and the film. It can be said that Zhu Shimao’s experiment was successful.

At that time, Zhu Shimao’s career was no longer dying, and her marriage with Fan Xuxia was on the right track. But daily necessities are not maintained by love alone, and they are far more complicated than love.

After Fan Xuxia’s marriage, the word "sweet" remained with Zhu Shimao at first. But as soon as his son Qingyang Zhu was born, Zhu Shimao went to study abroad alone.

Once you leave, it will be three years. When I came back again, what was left with Fan Xuxia was a pile of contradictions.

After the separation, the reunion is the alienation of the two, and it is not the "hidden pain" of the life of middle-aged couples.

In the family, everyone has to pay a heavy burden. Then, Zhu Shimao devoted himself to his career, but Fan Xuxia focused entirely on his children.

They share the same bed, but their mood has already drifted elsewhere. But Zhu Shimao gradually alienated his wife and children, and Fan Xuxia could only bear it, choosing to be a secular wife, caring for her husband and educating her children, and taking care of everything in life.

But it is the son’s education that makes them fall apart completely.

Zhu Shimao advocates liberal education, but Fan Xuxia is more concerned about a child’s educational foundation. So the child was sent out of the country, and Fan Xuxia followed.

Fan Xuxia, but have no choice. On the one hand, the important task of family education, but on the other hand, is wrapped in marriage, but also to be a good wife.

However, Zhu Shimao’s separation from him for three years inevitably made Fan Xuxia disappointed with his marriage again and again. So she chose to be a good mother and then a good wife.

It will be fourteen years since Fan Xuxia left. The two separated in different places for fourteen years.

The sweetness of the past, the common troubles of the past, all seem to be falling apart. During this period, Zhu Shimao visited his wife and children, but it was two or three times a year.

Zhu Shimao didn’t give up, and he was once begged by his son to stay by pulling his trousers. But the domestic notice and the cost of breaking the contract made him only inclined to leave.

It can be said that the date of marriage with Fan Xuxia was not the fault of Zhu Shimao alone. In emotional life, everyone needs to be wrapped up by some outside world.

The two of them, to some extent, also have a tacit understanding. One is running the family, the other is fighting for the cause. This model is true, but it lacks the necessary communication.

If Zhu Shimao can tilt the scales to the family once by accident, perhaps he and Fan Xuxia will not go to the tragedy of being ignored by each other.

When the emotional needs in marriage are not properly met, men will inevitably look for blurting out. So Zhu Shimao, became a member of the cheating.

On the one hand, he can’t get rid of his usual love with his wife, but when his career is in full swing, Zhu Shimao forgets his wife who is in trouble, and instead leaves his love to the intervener.

But the tragedy of their marriage has caused. It seems that cheating is also the inevitable trend of Zhu Shimao.

In his later years, Zhu Shimao didn’t know the disadvantages of this marriage.

From his son Qingyang Zhu’s wedding banquet to his children’s first birthday banquet, Zhu Shimao always exhorted his son to put marriage first, and then his career.

I didn’t mean to wet my shoes, so I don’t want my son Qingyang Zhu to go astray again and let the marriage become a pure "grave".

In those days, Zhu Shimao’s peach affair was not aboveboard. The moment of kissing was revealed by the camera, but Zhu Shimao openly disclosed the media’s public opinion:

It is a kind of slander against old artists.

Zhu Shimao’s judgment as an "old artist" seems to the outside world like a shattered glass addicted to cheating.

Zhu Shimao’s right or wrong?

From a poor boy to a skeleton, Zhu Shimao won a career and a good wife.

Looking back on this road, Zhu Shimao has long been divorced from "Old Xu" in herdsman. He no longer exists warmth, but also goes to the opposite.

From a faithful husband to a cheating man. Zhu Shimao got the pouring and expansion of desire and lost his marriage.

Fame and profit are nothing but empty shells. But Zhu Shimao didn’t see through this, and became a "worshipper" of the flesh again and again.

But this is complicated and secular, and how many people can get out of the mud without being stained? Men in the world live up to their expectations, but Zhu Shimao is just a typical example.

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Jilin: Creating a Virtual Digital Man of Ice and Snow and Polishing the IP of "It snows during the long day"

On February 2 nd, Jilin’s first virtual digital human snow and ice travel propaganda film "Seeing Adventures in Snowy Fields during the Long Day" was released. Through the combination of virtual reality production technology and real-life shooting in Changbai Mountain, the film creates the virtual digital people "the first day" and "Xuanlong" of ice and snow culture, empowers the ice and snow industry with digital technology, and brings a new visual feast to the audience.

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Cross-border beauty of luxury brands is not as simple as imagined.

Text | Cosmetics News Zou Xinchen

Gucci (Gucci), Prada (Prada), Hermes (Hermes), Burberry (Burberry) … These luxury brands are well-known in the fashion world. In recent years, they have stepped into the beauty industry "cross-border" one after another, which was once regarded as a "dimensionality reduction blow" by KOL and fans. Recently, however, the slow growth of Gucci Beauty seems to be a microcosm of the dilemma of these luxury fashion brands in the beauty market: it is not as easy as imagined that "blue blood" aristocratic luxury brands make beauty across borders.

The rotation of 01 brand creative directors is like a cursory tour, and the beauty product line is overwhelmed.

"Everyone wants to know what’s next for Gucci Beauty." Joan Kennedy, a columnist of Business of Fashion, said in her report.

In 2019, Coty Group relaunched this beauty brand. At that time, the creative director of Gucci was Alessandro Michele, who brought his minimalist and emotional style into all aspects of the brand, and the beauty business was also affected by it. Gucci Beauty’s product packaging is characterized by bright flowers and retro style, and it is featured by punk musicians such as Dani Miller. It is eccentric and exaggerated, which is very in line with Michelle’s aesthetics. "But in terms of product content, it is no different from other brands of eye shadow discs and lipsticks." Joan said.

At first, Michelle’s novel concept caused a shock in the fashion and beauty industries, and the sales of Gucci Beauty products soared. However, with the novelty brought by Michelle’s aesthetics gradually disappearing, consumers’ "aesthetic fatigue" on Gucci has become more and more obvious. During 2020-2021, Gucci’s sales continued to decline. In November 2022, Michelle left her job, and before the new creative director took office, the men’s show in January designed by the former was greatly reduced in scale, and the same reduction also appeared in beauty. Gucci Beauty declined to comment on it.

The dilemma of Gucci Beauty has sparked a heated discussion in the industry about how luxury fashion brands should carry out their beauty business. Historically, it has always been a challenge to combine fashion and beauty makeup, which run on different time axes and serve different customers. For the beauty product line of fashion brands, it may be an effective strategy to "completely accept" the aesthetics of creative directors, but relying too much on the aesthetics of creative directors will also bring risks, especially after luxury brands have developed the habit of rapidly rotating creative directors.

In recent years, the term of the creative director of luxury brands has become shorter and shorter. For example, Ann Demeulemeester, Bottega Veneta and Burberry all "sent away" their former creative directors in less than five years. "If the beauty business is consistent with the overall aesthetic style of the brand, replacing the creative director will inevitably lead to the redesign of the packaging of beauty products, which requires high operation of the operation department and will affect the overall profitability." Tony Wang, founder of brand strategy consulting firm Office of Applied Strategy, said in an interview with BOF.

"For example, in Gucci, it seemed reasonable at that time to let Michelle have more say in beauty, but with the change of brand creative director, Gucci Beauty also followed the overall style of’ Ben Jia’ and chose to take traditional aesthetics as the design center, which caused its brand image to be separated from the previous Michelle period." Tony Wang said, "This image transition is not only slow, but also very expensive."

"Because clothing is seasonal, the cost of redesigning fashion is lower, and consumers will soon forget the style of last season. But in terms of beauty, once you produce a large amount of inventory, it is not easy to change the product packaging. " Tony Wang added.

02 luxury brands are in trouble, beauty and fashion style "fight"

Traditionally, luxury fashion brands sell their beauty products to giants such as L ‘Oreal, Estee Lauder and Coty, who are responsible for the specific development, marketing and distribution of products under the guidance of brand creative directors.

"On the bright side, these authorized beauty product lines can enhance the brand image in disguise. Smaller fashion brands like Ba Erman or Magira can expand their beauty product lines without investing their own funds through authorized cooperation with L ‘Oré al Group. " Mario Ortelli, managing partner of Ortelli & Co., a luxury goods acquisition company, said. "However, in a negative sense, this kind of" two-management "behavior will also split luxury brands, resulting in a lack of cohesion in the brand as a whole, thus weakening the brand image."

"Of course, the licensee naturally wants to renew the contract with the brand, but their top priority is to make as much money as possible during the contract period, rather than maintaining the overall tonality and brand image of luxury brands." Ortelli said, "But for luxury brands, the latter is the most important."

When the beauty products authorized by large groups deviate from the style of the creative director of luxury brands, the results will also confuse consumers. For example, in 2018, Coty Group launched a publicity campaign for Burberry’s "She" perfume, adopting the style of Christopher Bailey, the former creative director of Burberry. However, not long after, Riccardo Tisci, the brand’s new creative director, released the brand concept centered on street clothes and adopted a more modern new logo and letter pattern, and the publicity campaign was dropped.

Similarly, Valentino Beauty, which was launched in 2021, uses big red as the product packaging. Although this hue will remind consumers of the brand image of Valentino in the last century, it has nothing to do with the electro-optical pink recently promoted by Pierpaolo Piccioli, the brand creative director.

"This’ deviation’ means that those’ new’ consumers who are attracted by beauty products lack a clear understanding of the style of luxury brands themselves." Ariel Ohana, managing partner of investment bank Ohana & Co., said, "This chronic’ brand image erosion’ is hard to find, especially if luxury brands cooperate with licensees for a long time."

"The story and overall image created by a brand are the most important assets of luxury brands." Tony Wang also agreed with Ohana that "the brand image found by luxury consumers in the beauty products they buy should be consistent with the brand as a whole, otherwise, it will damage the brand’s long-standing historical reputation."

Ohana added: "If this will damage the overall image and reputation of the brand, even if the brand has performance growth in the next few decades, one day, the brand will pay for it."

Dior: keep a balance between beauty and fashion.

Luxury brands such as Chanel and Dior choose to firmly control the beauty products business in their own hands. This internal operation mode gives brands more control-not to mention higher profit margins. Audrey Depraeter-Montacel, managing director and head of beauty business of Accenture, said, "Many mysteries surrounding the production of beauty products have been solved, and it is easier to launch beauty products now than it was ten years ago. However, this still requires the brand to take out a lot of time and money; In addition to investing in products, marketing and distribution capabilities, operating the beauty business internally requires luxury brands to change their way of thinking and require more interaction between R&D departments and commercial operations departments. "

"A luxury brand like Dior, which has more budget and higher popularity, has stronger independence in its beauty business." Audrey added, "The perfume of this brand has its own uniqueness, but it has little to do with the fashion of the brand. For example, Sauvage perfume endorsed by Johnny depp in 2015 can’t reflect the brand creative director Kim Jones’ understanding of the brand’s men’s wear style. If you ask anyone on the street, they may not know that Sauvage is Dior’s perfume, but it is still the most popular perfume in Dior’s history and a huge driving force for brand performance. "

But even if it is independent like Dior, it still dares not completely separate the brand image from the beauty business. Today, its new design logo is appearing in its cosmetics and perfume products, and the design of its creative director Maria Grazia Chiuri is also appearing in some advertisements of beauty products, such as Grisdiol perfume.

"I think it is necessary to try. Beauty cosmetics can be used as a channel to understand the response of luxury brands to fashion elements, or to attract new audiences, such as Generation Z consumers." Thomas Zeldari, a professor of luxury marketing at new york University, said. "With the increasingly fierce competition in the beauty market, luxury brands now have to compete not only with savvy rising stars, but also with each other. How to strike a balance between fashion style and beauty products is a problem that all major luxury brands need to consider in the future. "

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How to prevent love from losing to distance

In clinical psychological counseling, couples or couples often encounter the problem of separation. The more you consult these questions, the more you can find that there is a natural conflict between love and distance. If we don’t handle it carefully, the probability of love losing to distance is still quite large. Therefore, whether it is a couple in love or an old couple who have been married for many years, it is a problem that we need to face up to and pay attention to.

The following analysis and suggestions can also provide reference for the situation that the family cannot be taken care of for some reasons.

Whether it’s a couple in love or an old couple who have been married for many years, being away from home is a problem that we need to face up to and pay attention to; Image from the network)

Why distance

Have such a great influence on love?

Speaking of this question, I have to talk about three essential elements of perfect love: intimacy, passion and commitment. The three elements of love were put forward by Robert Robert Jeffrey Sternberg, a professor of psychology at Yale University. He pointed out that different stages and types of love can be interpreted as different combinations of these three elements. For example, with the development of two people’s romantic relationship, the focus of each component will change. For example, there will be more passion at first, but gradually, commitment will become more important. Robert Jeffrey Sternberg also found that the duration of a relationship based on a single factor is not as long as that based on two or three factors.

Three elements of love: intimacy, passion and commitment; The size of the triangle indicates the degree of admiration, and the larger the triangle, the higher the degree of admiration; Each horn represents a unique type of love; Different combinations form seven different types of love; Image from the network)

Usually, the intimate relationship with the longest persistence and the highest satisfaction is obtained by the efforts of both partners to maintain intimacy and enhance their sense of responsibility.

In a long-distance relationship, intimacy is easily affected. Sometimes what can be solved by a hug leads to misunderstandings and the accumulation of negative emotions because of the obstacles of emotional expression.

Coupled with the cumulative effect of different living environments and different social circles, over time, it is likely that two people will have less and less common language and it will become more and more difficult to understand each other.

What is even more frightening is that it will wear away trust. There are many uncertain factors for two people who live in different places for a long time, such as a message or phone call that can’t be answered in time, a photo taken with other members of the opposite sex, a lie that hides their whereabouts, and so on, which may lead to the collapse of trust.

Therefore, the lack of intimacy is the key reason why many long-distance relationships lose to distance and time.

Lack of intimacy is the key reason why many long-distance relationships lose to distance and time; Image from the network)

How to overcome the troubles in different places?

Then how can we overcome the unfavorable factors brought by different places and maintain a harmonious and long-lasting relationship? We suggest that couples or couples who are experiencing the test in different places need to do the following work:

First, learn to communicate deeply and build a building of trust.

The hardest part to deal with in different places is communication. Many people think that communication mainly depends on language, but in actual communication, the influence of language information is very small, accounting for only about 7%, and tone, facial expression and body account for 93%. Therefore, when two people communicate in different places, it is impossible to fully understand each other’s emotional state, even if it is a video, it lacks the participation of touch and smell, and it is impossible to achieve a comprehensive experience. Therefore, it is very important to improve the depth and efficiency of communication.

For communication in different places, we suggest that the big principle is "report every day, learn to share, and don’t have a cold war".

(The principle of communication in different places: report every day, learn to share, and never have a cold war; Image from the network)

Many couples in different places are busy at work, so it may be unrealistic to report from time to time, but it may become a burden to each other. However, it is necessary to give a brief report every day, especially for men. Before going to bed, they should briefly talk about their day’s situation and the next day’s arrangements, voice messages or short calls. With such a habit, mutual trust will be enhanced.

By sharing your own life, you can let each other know about your living environment and dynamics and enhance each other’s sense of security.

But no matter how good two people are, conflicts are inevitable. Quarrel is not terrible, but couples in different places should not use the cold war to deal with conflicts.

Second, strengthen the sense of ceremony, and farewell is better than marriage.

The preservation of two people’s love needs a sense of ceremony, and it is more urgent for both parties in different places to achieve the state of "a little farewell is better than a new marriage" by strengthening the sense of ceremony.

We can strengthen the sense of ritual in getting along from two aspects, one is to make rules, and the other is to create romance.

You can strengthen the sense of ritual in getting along in two ways: making rules and creating romance; Image from the network)

At the beginning of different places, it is necessary to make some rules to ensure the constant love interaction between two people. For example, talk every day, say good night to each other every day, and make regular video calls; Regarding communication, we must speak out if there are contradictions, instead of holding them in our hearts and fighting for the night; Regarding trust, no matter how busy you are, you should explain it in advance and share it briefly, and you must explain the unexpected situation afterwards. These agreements will subconsciously make us cherish our feelings and make the feelings in different places more stable.

In creating romance, many couples, especially girls, need to feel loved, so don’t ignore each other’s needs and set aside time to take care of her emotions and express their feelings. Properly expressing your thoughts and love for each other can make each other feel cared for. You can also often create some surprises for each other, such as writing a few love words to each other and singing a love song to each other. If you travel frequently, when you meet again, you should buy some carefully selected gifts for the other party, such as what the other party mentioned to you, to let the other party know that you are thinking about her at any time, so as to achieve the effect that parting is better than getting married.

Third, create romantic expectations and give full play to the power of commitment.

For a long-distance relationship, commitment is an important driving force for each other to overcome the current difficulties. If there is no expectation for the future, it is difficult for two people to resist the suffering of loneliness and missing. Therefore, when you are in a different place, you must increase the chances of meeting as much as possible, and before each separation, you can start to create the expectation of meeting next time, and try to be specific and look forward to it together. For example, "Let’s meet in a month, and I’ll cook you a big seafood dinner, so that you can taste my loving cooking skills.".

(When you are in a different place, you must increase the chances of meeting as much as possible, and before each separation, you can start to create the expectation of meeting next time, try to be specific and look forward to it together, but don’t break your promise; Image from the network)

Expectation can be divided into short-term goals and long-term goals.

Short-term goals can be aimed at mutual interests, such as traveling together, shopping together, climbing mountains together, watching movies together, etc. You can make a detailed plan, work together and implement it one by one, so that more connections can be built.

Don’t break your promise, if it doesn’t come true, and blame each other, the balance of your emotional savings account will be less and less.

The long-term goal is about the expectations of being together in the future. Couples in love can look forward to the wedding picture together, how romantic the wedding is, how exquisite the home decoration is, and how interesting the future life will be. For example, "When we get married in the future, we must raise a lovely kitten at home and have a particularly lovely child. I will take pictures of you, the kitten and the child, and I will be very happy when I think about it."

For married couples, how to solve the problem of separation between the two places is a very realistic topic. The other party may understand the needs of temporary career development, but if career development is always put above the needs of the other party, the probability of emotional problems is still very high if two people get together for a long time, so it is necessary to take care of how long to solve the problem in different places and how to make up for each other’s feelings, and give a promise to make the other party really feel at ease.

This paper is adapted from Intimate Relationship Management —— How to Deal with Conflicts in Intimate Relationship Rationally.

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